Holly Orbs

Holly Orbs
Created for the North Carolina Arboretum's Holly Garden

Saturday, June 23, 2012

In Your Face Help!

Your going to se a lot of “You’s” but bear with me, it will be worth Your while.

Hold on, help is here, if you want it! How many of us are in need of some kind of help? Help with a relationship, help with a financial matter help with Life! All the help you need is right here, and by that I mean You are the source, You have the ability to Help yourself, You are in control of your life...right? Oh, your not in control, really? So you didn't choose to be in that relationship, you didn't choose to buy that house or that car, you didn’t choose the path your life is on? Oh, I see, it’s all someone else’s fault, who, the bank You took out a loan with, the car lot You bought Your car from, the person You decided to have a relationship with? Are You really that weak? No of course you’re not, you’ve just been made to believe that everything that happens to you is because of someone or something else. Well I’m here to be a little in your face, and to tell you to STOP IT! It’s not everyone or everything else that is controlling your life it’s You, all You! I know that may be hard to believe, but think about it, I mean Really think about it. See all the You’s up there^, am I wrong, am I just pulling crap out of a hat, no, you know I’m not, and that’s why you’re still reading!
As hard as it may be to face, the only person that is truly responsible for you is You! Unless you are a minor, unless you are mentally incapable of making decisions, unless you are a victim of an outside source/anomoly, “you are why you are where you are”. Let’s do that again, “You are the Reason that you are where you are in your life”. Do you realize how powerful that statement is? It means that you can change your life by changing your thought process. I’m not talking about religion, unless that is your way of changing your path. I am talking about your mind set, your way of thinking, your belief system. Do you know that if you believe it, you are right, and if you don’t believe it, you are right.
There is a great wisdom in the belief that “You Are What You Think!” What does that mean? It means that if you think you “Can’t” your right, but it also means if you think you “Can” your also right. I’m not saying if you think you can fly off a roof you can, although, the process of falling through the air is a form of flying. But did you think of the end result of falling through the air? At some point there will be a landing, and it is up to you how that landing will be! Will it be a sudden stop that breaks every bone in your body, or will you glide through the air because you have the forethought to know that you need wings to fly! So, where are your wings? Where or how will they carry you to the place you want to be? They are right there, right smack in the middle of your mind!
How many of us have had the opportunity to Fly, to rise above, to be the best we can be, just to have our “Mind” (our selves) tell us that we Can’t, we’ll fail if we try, your not smart enough, your not rich enough, your not, your not! Bullshit! Abraham Lincoln was considered a failure, where would we be to day if he did not become President, Thomas Edison was considered a failure, heck even Elvis Presley was told he couldn't sing, Michael Jordan was cut from his high school team, even Albert Einstein was thought to be mentally handicapped! These and thousands more over came their “Failures” because they believed in Themselves, they believed that they Could do, Could Make, Could achieve the things no one else thought they could. OK, so right about now your thinking, “I’m not Albert Einstein or Michael Jordan”, really, are you sure, how do you know, or better yet why do you Believe that?
Your Belief system, the way that you think about yourself, the things you Think you can or Can’t do, are exactly why You are where you are. You see if you change the way you think, the way you believe, you can change everything and anything you Want to! It’s all in your thoughts. It has been proven that if you believe it to be so, if you have the determination to make it so, it will be so! You see you cant sit around thinking this sucks, this is bad, this is wrong, and not Create a life that Sucks, is bad and wrong! That’s just the way it is! You are what you think, and weather you believe it or not IS relevant, you are what you think you are, and no body has the ability to control your thoughts except You!
Think and believe in good thoughts and good things and good things will happen!
It’s as simple as that. Enjoy your life and your life will enjoy life!
This is all true, more to come, if you’re interested!